When it comes to heating things up in the bedroom, you might actually want to start on your phone.
While it might be confusing to start the foreplay over the phone, it’s actually one of the best ways to up the anticipation and get your man ready for a sexy night.
But you can’t just send any old message and hope for the best.
Luckily we’ve got you covered with some of the best sexting messages to send to your boyfriend.
Sexting messages to send to your boyfriend that’ll leave him wanting so much more
1. “I can’t wait to see you tonight.”
2. “I’ve been thinking about your body all day.”
3. “I want you.”
4. “You and me. Tonight.”
5. “I hope you’re well-rested because I’m not letting you rest all night.”
6. “Remember what you did last time that had me screaming? I can’t wait for that tonight.”
7. “I had a naughty dream about you last night. Want to guess what happened in it?”
8. “You have no idea how much I want you right now.”
9. “Hope work is going well today. You’ll be doing more work on me later ;)”
10. “I keep picturing your mouth on me…everywhere.”
11. “Thoughts of you have me distracted today ;)”
12. “What would you do to me if you were here right now?”
13. “Tell me three things you want tonight and I’ll make sure you get at least two of those ;)”
14. “I need you under me right now.”
15. “All I want right now is your mouth on me. I’ll let you guess where.”
16. “I can’t stop thinking about the last time we were in bed together.”
17. “Tonight I’m going to taste every inch of you.”
18. “Right now all I’m thinking about is our clothes on the floor.”
19. “I don’t know what you did but I just can’t seem to stop thinking about your body against mine.”
20. “I’ll let you guess which part of you I want in my mouth right now ;)”
21. “Want to see what I’m thinking about?” *send a naughty picture*
22. “I think I’ve been a very, very bad girl. You might have to spank me.”
23. “I’ve been thinking about doing you all day. I’m ready to stop thinking and start doing.”
22. “They say actions speak louder than words. Well baby, my actions will be screaming your name later.”
23. “I just want your hands all over me. Now.”
24. “I better not see you clothed tonight.”
25. “Get ready for tonight. Nothing is off-limits ;)”
26. “You know what sounds amazing? A shower with you.”
27. “I want to torture you with kisses…all over your body.”
28. “There’s nothing I want more right now than you giving me what I want.”
29. “Let’s play a game. Rule #1 – you tell me how much you want me. Rule #2 – if it’s good enough, we’ll start playing.”
30. “How good are you at being bad?”
31. “I want to feel your lips all over me. And I do mean all over me.”
32. “Your wish is my command. You get three wishes. Choose them wisely ;)”
33. “Let’s try something crazier than we ever have before.”
34. “I’m so hungry right now. Only…I don’t want food ;)”
35. “I want to feel your skin against mine all night.”
36. “If I was at home right now, I’d be touching myself to the thought of you.”
37. “I’ll never get tired of what you can do with that tongue.”
38. “Guess what I’m thinking about right now. I’ll give you a hint. It gives me incredible pleasure.”
39. “I want to give you a hug. With only my mouth ;)”
40. “Lying in bed as bored as ever. I wish you were here to play Simon Says with me ;)”
41. “I’ve been fantasizing about you all day. Want to make it come true?”
42. “I only have one thing on my mind. Take a guess what it is and I’ll reward you if you’re right.”
43. “I have a confession to make. I’ve been very naughty today and might need a spanking later…”
44. “If I was there right now, where would you want me to touch you?”
45. “Have you ever had a really naughty dream about me? Explain it to me…with details.”
46. “If you could do whatever you wanted to me right now, what would it be?”
47. “You may not be a wizard, but your mouth is pretty magical ;)”
48. “Let’s have dessert tonight. I’ll bring the whip cream if you bring the chocolate syrup.”
49. “I think it’s about time we tried _______________.”
Naughty sexts that are guaranteed to make your man beg for you
50. “Your hands running down my naked body. That’s what I need.”
51. “I don’t want you to stop until the neighbors know your name.”
52. “I want to sit on your face.”
53. “I can’t stop thinking about how you feel inside me.”
54. “Is it wrong for me to be touching myself while thinking of your cock?”
55. “You’re so cute I want to ride your face.”
56. “I want to feel you deep in my throat.”
57. “If I was naked and standing in front of you, what would you touch first?”
58. “The first thing I wanted when I woke up this morning was you…in me.”
59. “I want you to write me a love note…with your tongue…between my legs.”
60. “Tonight, I’m going to ride you until you can’t take it anymore.”
61. “I want you to tell me how bad you want me.”
62. “I like the sound of your voice but I prefer the sound of your groans when you’re in my mouth.”
63. “Mmm. Nothing sounds better than your dick in my mouth.”
64. “Come home so I can show you what a bad girl I’ve been today.”
65. “You better get ready for a night of no sleep.”
66. “I want to wake up to your mouth between my legs every day.”
67. “You know that new table we just got? Let’s break it in tonight.”
68. “I want you to crash my shower and make me dirty all over again.”
69. “I want you deep in my throat as your face is between my legs.”
70. “If it was up to me, we would stay home all day and break in every piece of furniture I own.”
71. “I can’t stop touching myself while thinking about you going down on me.”
72. “I miss having your dick in my mouth. Let’s fix that.”
73. “Do you think I’d look better in some tight jeans or a skirt? Or nothing?”
74. “Play your cards right and I’ll reward you with something you’ll never forget.”
75. “Tonight, I want to start and your lips and kiss all the way down.”
76. “I’m going to give you a hot oil massage and then let you have your way with me.”
77. “What are you doing later? Oh, wait. I already know. Me.”
78. “I just found a new position we’ll have to try later ;)”
79. “I miss the feel of your hands ripping off my clothes.”
81. “I was thinking about you in the shower this morning. Can you guess why it took so long?”
82. “I want you to lie back and let me have my way with you tonight.”
83. “I want you to tease me until I just can’t take it anymore.”
84. “It’s too bad you’re not here right now because I’m so ready for you.”
85. “Remember the last time we got naughty? Let’s do that again, but even better.”
86. “You’re making me so wet and you’re not even here.”
87. “I’m afraid I won’t be able to control myself with you tonight.”
88. “I don’t want you to say a word when you get home. Just grab me and take me to bed.”
89. “What do you want me to wear in bed tonight? My vote is nothing.”
90. “If it was up to me, you’d never be clothed again.”
91. “If you can guess the color of my panties, I’ll give you a blow job tonight.”
92. “What’s the hottest thing you think we’ve ever done? I want to top it tonight.”
93. “You turn me on so much it’s dangerous.”
94. “I wish you could feel how wet you’re making me.”
95. “I wish I wasn’t at work. Actually, no. I just wish you were here to take me on my desk.”
96. “I’ll let you do whatever you want to me tonight if you can guess where I’m touching myself.”
97. “I’m stressed out. I need you to come make me forget my own name.”
98. “I hid something special for you on me. You’ll have to frisk me just to find it.”
99. “It’s not fair for you to be so far away when I’m so very wet.”
100. “Just put clean sheets on the bed so we can dirty them later ;)”
101. “I just bought a couple of sex toys for us to try out later.”
Tips for making the most of these sexting messages to send to your boyfriend
You can’t just expect any of these sexts to work in any situation. It takes a lot more than a single text to get your man in the mood.
Here are some tips that’ll help make these sexting messages a lot more effective at turning him on.
1. Don’t say anything you won’t back up
It’s really important not to make your man think you’re into something that you’re not. This is basically the last thing you want to do.
It might be really easy to tell him you want to try anal if you know he’s always been interested, but when he comes home to act on that and you get all annoyed, the sexting won’t be as effective.
Basically, he won’t believe you. And that means the next time you go to sext, he might not be as interested because he thinks you’ll just feed him more lies.
Instead, make sure you’re only turning him on in ways you’d actually do in person.
Better yet, if you tell him you’re going to give him a blowjob through sexting, then actually do it when he gets home.
2. Know what he likes
You can’t really try to turn your man on if you’re not quite sure what actually gets him off.
For this reason, it’s usually a great idea to wait until you’ve already been intimate before sending sexting messages.
You can’t effectively make him want you if he’s not into the stuff you’re describing.
If you know he loves doggy style, go into detail about what you want him to do to you in this position.
Appealing to what he likes most will go a long way in making sure your sexting messages are well received and appreciated.
Plus, if he isn’t into anal, it won’t do you any good to talk about it.
3. Get yourself in the mood and say what feels right
This is really important. It’s much easier to send sexting messages to your boyfriend if you’re horny. Whether you do it by hand or with the help of a vibrator, it doesn’t really matter.
Obviously, you don’t have to be as wet as you say you are, but it does help if you’re not lying about the fact that you want him to come home and do you.
When you’re in the mood, you’ll actually be visualizing what would feel good. That allows you to better describe what you want more realistically.
Plus, this way, you’ll also be saying stuff that’ll actually put you in the mood and keep you there.
Meaning, when he comes home, he’ll actually do the stuff you talked about wanting so badly. Both sides win in this situation.
So get yourself in the mood and tell him what you want and even what you’re doing to yourself. He’ll love it.
4. Be descriptive
It’s fine if you want to say, “I want to ride you.”
However, being more descriptive after saying this and going into more detail can do a lot more for you when talking to your man.
So in addition to saying, “I want to ride you,” you can also add on, “I want to ride you until I feel you quake beneath me.”
You can also use detail to describe what you want instead of just saying that you want to ride him.
Something along the lines of, “I want to sit on your dick and slowly ride you up and down until you can’t take it anymore,” will turn him on a lot more than a vague sentence.
Remember to use senses when describing what you want. What do you want to taste and touch and hear?
Tell him exactly you want so it can paint a clearer image in his head.
Once he has that visualization, it’ll get him a lot more into the sexting.
5. Know when it’s an appropriate time for it
It’s not always a good time for sexting. You never know what he could be doing at work when you send a naughty message.
But if you are aware of any big meetings, don’t try to sext him.
More likely than not, if he’s too busy and not able to reply, he’ll feel more stressed than turned on.
You want to be sure he’ll have a slow day at work or that he’s on lunch before you try any of these sexting messages to send to your boyfriend.
This way, you’ll actually be able to engage in some sexting before he has to go. If he’s busy, he might only reply here and there and won’t be fully in the moment.
If that becomes the case, the texting will be too drawn out to have much effect.
Talk to him when you’re sure he can actually respond and will be engaged with your bout of naughty texts.
6. Stay in the moment
If you’re sending naughty messages and just so happened to remember that your man needs to pick up milk on the way home, don’t say it right then.
Just make a mental note or write it down and let him know after.
Interrupting a great sexting session by telling him he has a chore to run will definitely ruin the mood.
Nobody wants to be told they have something to do when getting flirty with their significant other–unless that thing is them.
The point is, you want to stay in the moment in order to make him want you more.
No matter what, focus on making sure you both stay fully engaged in the naughtiness going down on your phone.
This makes your messages a lot more effective and will ensure you really do turn him on.
7. Avoid overusing emojis
Yes, those little wink faces and smileys can do a lot for you during the regular conversation but when it comes to sexting, they can be a little extreme.
They’re also distracting.
If you want to send a wink here or there, that’s fine, but ultimately, you really don’t want to overdo it.
Seeing too many emojis will take him out of the sexiness of the moment.
Plus, it’s really easy to send the wrong one and all it takes is a misplaced emoji for the entire mood to be ruined.
Stick to regular text winks and avoid sending a ton of emojis in your messages.
One emoji is the max and don’t send them in every single message.
8. Don’t do all the talking but don’t let him, either
You really want the conversation to be well balanced. If you’re the only one sending any descriptive messages, it’ll feel like he’s not into it.
It might even be a sign that he’s not really engaged in the conversation.
So make sure you ask some questions that’ll force him to be more involved.
However, if you ask too many, he might get annoyed with it. An easy rule to follow is to simply ask a question every three or four messages you send.
This will ensure there’s a nice balance of you sending naughty things and him replying with something just as sexy.
9. Send a few visuals if you’re comfortable with it
As long as you trust him, go ahead and send a naughty picture here and there.
Getting naked and taking a few selfies to use during moments like these is perfect because it’ll show him something to get him in the mood and he’ll be extremely satisfied with that little bit of teasing.
Since guys are very visual beings, it helps to have something to go along with the naughty things you’re saying.
You don’t have to send a ton of them. In fact, that will kind of ruin the effect you’re going for.
But sending a little teasing picture of you will help him see just how turned on you really are and that’ll help get him in the mood right away.
10. Have fun with it
Sexting is all about having fun and turning on your man. Just be yourself and say the stuff you want to say.
Focus on what makes you feel good and what’ll get him in the mood.
You don’t have to be an expert in this in order to have fun and get him all riled up and ready to go when the day is over.
If you’re having fun with it, he’ll know it and that’ll make it a lot more fun for him too.
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