There are two things men like most:
Food and sex. (And not necessarily in that order)
So it makes sense that sex with food would be incredible for us, right?
And it is.
But there are so many things you need to worry about, like what food to use, how to use it, when to use it, and so on.
So let’s dive in and tackle this topic, shall we?
Sex With Food Rules
Before you begin your sexploration with your guy, there are a few things you need to know about.
Well, obviously, the first thing you need to do is talk with your partner and see if there are any foods he’s allergic to.
Nothing kills a mood faster than a trip to ER, trust me on that one.
Next, focus on sweets for your food choices. I provide a partial list below, but you want to avoid spicy and savory things for your bedroom activities.
Be prepared. Bring napkins, towels, and anything and everything you think you might need. And yes, that includes condoms and lubricants – you don’t want to tumble around looking for them and ruin the mood, do you? No, you don’t.
Switch it up. Have him eat food off your body, then do the same to him.
And lastly, have fun. Don’t try to overthink this or agonize over the perfect foods to use. Sex with food is supposed to be a fun, pleasurable experience so make sure it is just that.
But what food should you use during foreplay?
While there are countless options, the ones I’ve listed below are a safe way to start.
Sex Food #1: Whipped Cream
This is probably the first item people think about when they want to introduce food into their bedroom.
And for good reason, too.
You can spray it all over your body and have him lick it all off you…and after he’s done with that, you can do the same thing to him.
It’s also one of the items that is safe to put on his more…delicate…parts, so it will heighten his pleasure.
(But don’t put it on your delicate parts, and this goes for every item on this list – you don’t want anything sugary inside of you)
Sex Food #2: Syrups
Chocolate, strawberry, maple, banana…
The choice of flavor is up to you.
One cool thing you can do is write messages on your partner’s body.
Dirty talk, pet nicknames, even little hearts – you can get pretty creative here.
However, you need to be careful too.
Syrup will destroy your bed sheets more than any other food on this list.
So if you want to try it out, put towels underneath your bodies.
Sex Food #3: Chocolate
You can eat little pieces of chocolate off his body.
You can put a little piece of it in your mouth and then slowly glide it across his body.
You can use it as a snack before, after, or even during sex.
When it comes to using chocolate during sex, only your mind is the limit.
Sex Food #4: Popsicles
Yes, yes, there are shaped like a penis.
But that’s not the reason they are one of the greatest sex foods out there.
It’s because there’s so much stuff you can do with them.
Here’s what I suggest:
Start the foreplay by sucking on a popsicle while he watches.
And seriously, give him a show.
Suck that popsicle with all the enthusiasm and excitement you can muster.
Then, when he can’t take it any longer, start giving him a blowjob.
Alternate between giving him a bj and sucking a popsicle.
The pleasure he’ll feel will be immeasurable.
(If you can’t get your hands on a popsicle, use an ice cube – it will have the same effect, just without the sweetness.)
Sex Food #5: Gummy Bears
This is my favorite.
The way I like to use gummy bears with my girlfriend is simple:
I tell her to lie on her back and be still, and then I arrange a bunch of gummy bears from her vagina to her neck.
I usually have one straight line going straight from the neck downward, and a few more circular lines around her boobs.
Then, I start kissing and licking her body and eating those gummy bears one at the time.
By the time I get to her neck she’s usually so horny she jumps me right there and then. (Not that I’m complaining of course)
Sex Food #6: Honey
What if I told you that there was a food that did everything a chocolate syrup does, but was both healthier and could give your man a testosterone boost in bed?
Yup, you guessed it, it’s honey.
Apparently honey is full of mineral called boron which is known to boost testosterone in men.
More testosterone = better sex.
Just don’t overdo it.
Two to three spoons of honey are enough to keep both of you happy for the entire night.
Sex Food #7: Strawberries
So maybe you don’t eat candy.
And maybe whipped cream isn’t really your thing.
That doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy sex with food.
Strawberries are a good, healthy alternative to other foods on this list.
And it doesn’t have to be strawberries, too.
Raspberries, blueberries, cranberries – any type of berry will do just fine.
And, if you’re on a cheat day, you can even mix it up with syrups, chocolate, or whipped cream and double your pleasure.
I’ve left out a few other things from this list.
Pineapples, oysters, mangos, grapefruit, grapes…
The list goes on and on.
The truth is, you can use endless types of foods during foreplay.
The above list is meant to get you started on your sexploration journey.
So go out, buy one – or three – of these items and try them out tonight.
You’ll both enjoy it.
P.S. Spicing up your sex life with food is a great way to add novelty to your bedroom activities, but’s it’s definitely not the only way.
You see, as much as men like food, they crave something else in bed.
When you talk dirty to a man, you stimulate his largest sex organ – his mind.
And when you can do that – stimulate his mind and his desire with just the power of your words –
You’ll get the love and devotion from him you never knew was possible.
Heck, you’ll get the love and devotion HE never knew was possible.
But it’s not easy learning how to talk dirty.
You have a bunch of articles online that are talking about it, but those are written by women who write about what THEY think men want to hear, not what we ACTUALLY want to hear.
That’s why I’ve created Dirty Talking Secrets – the ultimate guide on how to talk dirty to your man.
It’s the only dirty talk guide written by a man.
That means you’re getting the truth about what men REALLY want to hear in bed.