The key to keeping any man all to yourself is the ability to connect with him sexually.
You’ve got to know how to turn him on.
But it’s not as straightforward as one-size-fits-all tips.
I’m going to share with you some simple yet effective advice.
Advice that turns him on, and keeps him coming back for more.
Before we go any further, you’ve got to make sure that you are not doing anything that actively turns him off.
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Sometimes you’d be better off doing nothing, and he’d be more turned on.
So make sure you’re not sabotaging yourself.
Next, let’s start from the outside and work in.
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Create A Sexy Environment
And with that, I would add, keep it simple.
I noticed some great advice while researching this article.
And the good news is that it is really simple to make your bedroom the perfect place for much of your sexual relationship.
You should start by keeping it tidy, and making the bed each day so that it is reset for the evening.
The last thing you want to encounter is a messy bedroom, which clothes strewn about and getting in the way.
And I don’t even need to say it but you’ve got to stop leaving dirty dishes around.
That for me, is a major turn-off. I’m sure it’s the same for other guys.
Don’t forget that your bedroom (and the rest of your living space) is a reflection of who you are as a woman.
If this is a new guy that you’re dating, make sure you’re making the best impression possible.
Be At Your Best
Most guys don’t want supermodels for girlfriends.
With incredible beauty usually comes incredible headaches.
Most men just don’t value stunning beauty enough to want to do the hard work to hold on to it.
This is great news for the rest of you.
You just need to look your best.
Get honest advice from the people in your life about what kind of outfits flatter you, and which just don’t work.
Is your man a peace-loving, vegan hipster? Maybe it’s not so important to worry about being shaven or waxed everywhere at all times.
Is your guy a corporate suit-and-tie kind of man? Perhaps you can get busy with him by sporting a tight office ensemble.
Figure out what is pleasing to his eye and touch.
When you’re out and about with him, try and notice which other girls catch his eye.
And don’t give him trouble for it.
All men do this.
See where his gaze wanders. Spot the target of his focus. Note what she’s wearing, or how she carries herself.
There could be a few things you could incorporate which would cause his gaze to stay fixed on you.
Remember, a man likes what he likes. No amount of complaining or shaming him will change what he likes.
So adapt to him, or find a new guy.
Otherwise, he’ll end it with you, or, if he’s a lesser man, he’ll just pretend to listen to you, and drive his sexual preferences underground.
Start To Get Inside His Head
Now we’re starting to get into the advanced advice.
Ladies, you’ve got to put your preconceived notions about men to one side.
Listen to me clearly:
For the most part, men are how they are, and cannot change.
Men might pretend to change (to get you to stop complaining), but they still are the same men.
What does this mean for you?
If you want to get him addicted to you, you’ve got to learn how to communicate intimately with him.
Now, it doesn’t mean that you have to transform yourself into a cheap phone-sex operator.
But it does mean that you cannot be shy about communicating to him in a way that makes him so hot and bothered that he’ll do anything for you if you could only relieve his urge.
To start, you need to get into his head and figure out exactly what is behind his sexual drive.
But let’s get one thing straight: men are usually very reluctant to share this side of them with anybody – let alone you.
Most guys have got dark and dirty fantasies that they feel embarrassed or ashamed about.
Your job is to coax them out of him.
The good news is that this is possible. You can do this.
The thing is, you need the skills to get him to open up.
When a man is under a woman’s sexual spell, he is literally at her mercy.
So use it wisely.
Pulling It All Together
Now that you’ve learned how to turn a guy on, I’m going to show you how you can implement this valuable knowledge.
Right now we’re at top-level seduction strategy.
You’ve learned how to structure your home for a maximal intimate effect.
You’ve learned how to carry yourself and dress to entice him.
And you’ve learned how to discover his innermost erotic fantasies.
Now is the time to put your advanced knowledge into action.
Learn the art of Dirty Talk.
And no, you don’t have to transform yourself into some kind of cheap slut.
And you won’t embarrass yourself by saying the wrong thing.
We’ve created a comprehensive and detailed guide showing you exactly what to do, what to say, how to say it, and when to say it.
We’ve shown you how to build tension. Tension so great that he’ll rush home to you, bursting through the door, and straight into your sensual boudoir.
This guide isn’t free. But no important investment in your future is.
I think we’ll agree that it’s a small price to pay to have the man of dreams addicted to you.