Swallowing your man's cum may be something that he didn’t ask you to do in the past.
However, it doesn’t mean that he doesn’t like it.
Most men may bring this up with their partners once or twice but would not force the subject if their girlfriends weren’t comfortable with it.
You may be one of those women who have not yet given this much thought.
To help you understand why it’s something that you must absolutely consider doing for your man’s pleasure, I’ve rounded up the top five reasons your man likes it when you swallow his cum.
1. It makes him feel more special and accepted.
Most men see your swallowing of their cum as an act of acceptance. It means you, as his girlfriend, accepts and even worships him and his entire being. When you do, it makes him feel more special, bringing him closer to you.
2. It turns him on.
But only if he sees you enjoying the act. If he sees you’re only doing it because he wants you to and your heart is not 100 percent into it, he may feel rejected. This can ruin his mood for sex.
3. It makes him feel more dominant.
Your boyfriend or husband, even if he doesn’t say it, wants to be the driving force in bed. Even if he likes when you take control sometimes, he still thinks that the ultimate control should be his.
So when you allow him to ejaculate into your mouth and you swallow his cum afterwards, it means you’re giving him the power in bed. You’re letting him dominate.
4. It feels better to finish inside than outside.
There are times when your man will feel that sex or a blowjob is better if you accept his semen orally. This is because he doesn’t have to take out his male organ from your vagina or mouth when he’s about to come, allowing him to experience a better orgasm.
5. The look on your face when swallowing makes it all worth it.
Nothing beats the look on your face when you swallow your man’s cum and you look like you’re having a good time while doing it. It can send him to cloud nine.
6 Reasons Women Don’t Like Swallowing Cum
There are many reasons women can’t stand the idea of swallowing their boyfriend’s cum, let alone allow them to ejaculate into their mouths.
Let’s be honest here. Semen doesn’t taste like your favorite ice cream. If it did, swallowing your boyfriend’s cum wouldn’t be this much big of a deal, right?
Your boyfriend’s cum doesn’t usually smell the best. Yes, there may be instances that it will be odorless but more often than not, it smells less appealing than you’d like.
3. Gag Reflex
Also known as laryngeal spasm, gag reflex is caused when an object is thrust toward the opening of your mouth, touching its roof, the back of your tongue or throat, or the area surrounding your tonsils.
Simply put, it’s that feeling you have when his penis is in your mouth and he pushes it down your throat. It’s not pleasant at all so it’s no surprise that you don’t always relish the sensation.
Most men’s semen has an unusual color. If your boyfriend’s or husband’s is the same, it may not look pleasant to you at all. Seeing it that way can have a huge effect on how you’ll feel about it when time for swallowing it comes, right?
If his cum is too thick and chunky, say like cottage cheese or yogurt, it may not be too appealing to let it into your mouth then swallow it after.
6. Too Much Semen
A man’s ultimate goal is to give you a huge load of their cum. It makes them feel so virile. However, it’s a major turn off for some women. They can feel that a large amount of semen, even if it’s from the one they love, is just too much to swallow in one go.
7 Tips To Make Swallowing Cum Easy For You
When you haven’t been with your boyfriend for quite a while, it’s understandable if you have reservations about swallowing his cum during intercourse.
However, if you’ve been together for quite some time already, know that he may, in passing, mention it to you. To avoid the awkwardness that such a conversation can cause, it’s best to prepare for it.
Figure out if swallowing his cum is something you’d be okay with doing. Remember, you should never be coerced or pressured into doing anything you’re not ok with.
More importantly, no matter what you do for your man in bed, you can’t be half in and half out of it. You should be 100% into it.
Now that we’ve got the crucial stuff out of the way, it’s time to drop the juiciest information I know you’re dying to know about – that is, if you’re ready to swallow his cum or you’ve been swallowing but are having a hard time with it.
Here are seven tips to make swallowing cum easy for you.
1. Have him drink apple or pineapple juice.
An hour or two before you make love, it’s a must to have him drink apple or pineapple juice. This will help improve the texture, smell, and taste of his semen. This way, when he ejaculates into your mouth, it won’t taste as bad as before.
Now, it’s important to know that this recommendation is only based on forums from the internet. There is no established medical research that supports this claim. Even so, it won’t hurt to try, right?
2. Suck on some peppermint.
Not all men are keen to drinking juice. If your boyfriend is one of them, don’t fret! You can suck peppermint while giving him head. When he ejaculates, the peppermint will help mask the semen’s natural smell and taste. This is worth a try, don’t you think?
3. Keep a strong-flavored drink with you.
Before you jump into bed, get yourself a glass of wine, iced tea, chocolate, or your favorite liquor. Put it above the cabinet so that it will be within your reach after you swallow your man’s cum.
Doing this will help prevent you from feeling nausea. It will help to mask the strong taste of semen in your mouth so you don’t look like you’re about to vomit.
4. Focus on the benefits of swallowing your man’s cum.
Many report that swallowing semen has a number of health benefits. It can lower your blood pressure, boost your immune system, lessen acne, enhance your overall mood, improve the quality of your sleep and memory, increase your energy level, and reduce pain from wounds.
Keep all these amazing benefits of swallowing his cum in mind for when the time comes.
5. Think about all the times he’s gone down on you.
When your man performs cunnilingus on you, he gets a taste of your very own nectar. Imagine if he ran to the bathroom to spit while in the middle of the act. How would that make you feel?
Performing fellatio on him and then swallowing his cum afterwards is kind of the same thing. The bottom line is that it’s something you do wholeheartedly because you want to please him.
6. Let him ejaculate on your breasts or other body parts.
Let’s say you’ve tried tips one to five and you’re still not comfortable with swallowing his cum. To help you start being more comfortable with it, ask him to come first on your breast, chest, chin, lips or other body parts of your choosing.
Doing this will help you get accustomed to the smell and texture of his semen. When you become familiar with it and you get used to the sensation it gives you, swallowing his cum the next time you make love should be easier.
Yes, you read that right! Since we all know practice makes perfect, it only makes sense to practice swallowing his cum whenever there’s an opportunity. So if you and your boyfriend make love three to four times a week, you should swallow his cum each time.
With regular practice, you should be on your way to learning to swallow cum without much effort and difficulty. You’ll also discover that swallowing cum shouldn’t be that hard, especially if you’re doing it for the man you love.
Important Considerations Before You Swallow Your Man’s Cum
It is common knowledge that semen may contain viruses which can be transmitted from an infected man through bodily fluids. So before you swallow your man’s cum, it is crucial to know about your boyfriend’s medical history.
If he is infected with Hepatitis B or is currently dealing with any Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) like chlamydia, gonorrhea, or herpes, it’s important that he tells you about it before you engage in oral sex.
Additionally, if you have any open sores in your mouth, bleeding gums or gingivitis, you should give fellatio on your boyfriend a pass as the risk of getting STIs is higher when you perform oral sex at that time.
Having said this, make sure you sit down with your man and talk about this with him. Because if you don’t, you could face huge problems down the line. Through honest and open communication with him, you’ll prevent having to deal with STIs.
Summing It All Up
Swallowing your man’s cum isn’t rocket science. There are several ways to make it easier for you. All you have to do is go through this guide and make sure you put every piece of advice into practice.
Once you learn this by heart you’ll become a pro at swallowing your boyfriend’s cum. You’ll start loving it and when he sees that you’re enjoying yourself as you give him the pleasure he deserves, he’ll be even more satisfied.
The look on his face will tell you how he feels after you give him head. So if you’re in doubt, just look at him. If you see the spark in his eyes and the curve of his lips when he smiles, you’ll know you’re sending him to sexual paradise.
Lastly, remember that honest communication with your man about each other’s medical history is the key to avoid contracting any STIs. Be sure to sit down with him and have a talk about it before you jump right into bed.
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