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How To Please Your Man In Bed: A Step By Step Guide

pleasing a man in bed

Not all men are into the same things.

Each has their own preferences when it comes to the delicate matters concerning being pleased between the sheets.

So what works for one may not work for another.

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For this reason, it pays to have knowledge about what how to please your man in bed, how to get him in the mood, and how to make him feel like a king when you’re making love to him.

Giving Your Man The Greatest Pleasure In Bed

I know that your desire to please him is intense, and that’s why you’re here.

Now, not all guys are so open about what they want you to do to them in bed. It won’t hurt to ask your man to talk about it though.

If you’re not comfortable with this right now, you’re in the right place. I’ve put together a step by step guide to pleasing your man in bed, based on most men’s sexual cravings.

1. Give him the hottest foreplay experience.

Yes, it’s true that most men are renowned for wanting to get it as soon as you crawl into bed. But that doesn’t mean that they can’t enjoy the buildup before the main event.

So a few hours before you make love with him, start talking dirty to him with some sexy text messaging.

This will help build up his anticipation for passionate sex later on. You could also add some sexy photos of you to the text conversation to really get his engine revving.

2. Use your mouth.

It’s no secret that men love blowjobs. This fact alone should be enough for you to work on making sure you give great head.

To take things to the next level, tie his hands using your bra and finish him off by swallowing his cum.

3. Touch his sensitive spots.

Men have some not-so-obvious erogenous zones including:

· Outside of his lower lip

· Front of his neck

· Nipples

· Dip under his ankle

· Penis shaft

· Perineum

· Seam of his testicles

· Head of his penis

· Lower back

· Earlobes

· Inner thighs

Some delicate stroking on any of these sensitive hot spots will leave him writhing and begging for the next step.

4. Engage in something taboo with him.

Most of us are hesitant about doing something out of the ordinary in bed for fear of being judged by our partners.

However, if you trust each other enough, you should be able to talk about some of the more unusual things and work through what you’re both comfortable with together.

So go ahead and open up about some taboo ideas you might have to him.

Whether it’s giving him a peep show by touching yourself, or submission, domination, or anal sex, let him know what it is that you’re willing to explore with him.

5. Surprise him with role play.

Role playing can be tough to pull off, especially if you haven’t tried it before.

However, if your aim is to please your man in bed, you have to let go of your inhibitions and try being experimental in the bedroom.

Here are some of the hottest role playing ideas worth trying with your man:

· Eager applicant and stern interviewer

· Student and professor

· Patient and nurse

· Customer and waitress

· Employee and boss

· Cop and criminal

6. Indulge in mirror sex.

Intensify his sexual pleasure in bed by initiating mirror sex with him.

Lead him over to a mirror, and suggest doing it doggy-style so you can get a solid visual of each other as he takes you from behind. Men are visual creatures and by initiating this with him, you’re able to give him an eyeful that he won’t ever forget.

7. Dominate him.

Sometimes, your man will be thrilled to just lie down in bed and allow you to take action.

So when you’re feeling bold enough to try this, get your bossy bitch on. Start by throwing him back on the bed.

Blindfold him and tie his hands. Punish him if he objects. Then give him a seductive blowjob or ride him reverse cowgirl.

8. Express yourself.

Your man can’t read your mind, no matter how much you’d love him to. He needs a little help when it comes to touching you in the ways you secretly crave.

So when he’s doing something that just doesn’t work for you, gently guide him on how he should be doing it right. Then when he nails it, say something like “Yes, I love that…” or “Go slower”.

By giving him positive feedback, he’s gaining knowledge of how to pleasure you exactly the way you like in bed.

9. Make his sexual kinks, fantasies, and fetishes come true.

What are the things that are massive turn-ons for him? As a loving girlfriend who’s serious about satisfying him in bed, it’s your job to find out.

He may be reluctant to talk about them at first so to help him ease up a bit, try telling him about yours first.

10. Have sex with him outside the bedroom.

It’s easy to get stuck in a sexual rut, especially if you’ve been in a relationship with him for quite some time.

To avoid this, understand that spontaneity is the key. So show your man how you’re willing to have sex with him in unexpected places at unexpected times.

The art of pleasing your man in bed is not that hard to master. With patience, time, and consistent application of the tips in this guide, you’ll drive him crazy in ways you never thought possible.

And don’t forget to check out the awesome Dirty Talk Secrets guide.

It’s packed full of hidden tips and secrets on how to gain control of your man’s largest sex organ…

…his brain.

When you satisfy him sexually, he’ll be yours forever.

So stop waiting around and learn how to be that woman for him.

Check out Dirty Talk Secrets now.

About the author

Maine Bel

Maine Belonio is a twenty-something mom and writer who has a penchant for coffee, long distance running, Tolkien, Switchfoot, and Jesus.