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How To Make Him Obsessed With You

how to make him obsessed with you

I get it.

It’s tough out there.

It’s hard enough getting a man’s attention these days.

But making him go crazy over you?

That seems almost impossible.

Luckily, I’ve got your back.

Here’s how to make him obsessed with you.

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Leave Him Wanting More

It seems that these days most women want to share everything about themselves – whether that’s on a first date or on their dating profile.

That’s a big mistake.

In doing so, they lose one major dating benefit.

Mystery.

Honestly, guys like mysterious women.

We go crazy for women who don’t reveal that much about themselves.

Now, the key to leaving him wanting more is being subtle.

Hint and tease at things, instead of being forward and outright telling him.

If you’re not used to communicating this way it will take some practice, but it’s worth it.

If you can make him wonder whether or not you’re really into him, you’ll have him thinking about you long after your conversation has ended.

Be The Best He’s Ever Had

sexy woman in bed

The best in what?

Well, in the bedroom of course.

Here’s a controversial truth that most websites won’t talk about:

If your sex skills are not that great, it doesn’t matter how sweet and caring you are…your relationship isn’t going to last.

Every time you’re having sex he’s going to be thinking about his ex who was much better than you.

Sounds harsh?

Well, it’s the truth.

Luckily, there is some good news.

Becoming the best he’s ever had isn’t really that difficult.

In fact, if you learn just one skill you’ll be able to have him obsess over you both inside and outside of the bedroom.

And what is that skill?

Talking dirty.

Check this link out for more information.

Be Unavailable

Sometimes the best way to improve your relationship is to take a step back.

Here’s what I mean by that.

If you’ve been flirting and spending time with your guy, but he isn’t getting more into you, then it’s time to pull back a little and give him the chance to miss you.

Now, I don’t mean you should stop communicating with him entirely.

Just reply a little later than normal to his messages, and be busy more often than not when he asks you out.

And this goes for social media as well.

A good rule of thumb is that the ratio of his-to-your messages should be 3:2; for every 3 messages he sends, you should reply with 2.

Of course, this isn’t a hard and fast rule, just something to keep in mind.

Don’t Be A Drama Queen

woman yelling at man

Guys don’t like drama.

This may sound obvious, but you’d be surprised at how many women tend to forget this.

Men like to be around happy, bubbly, positive women who make them feel good and joyful.

We’re drawn to them like iron to a magnet.

I mean, that goes for everyone.

Would YOU like to spend time around negative people who constantly whine and complain?

No?

Thought not.

So if you want to make him obsessed with you, be sure to be positive, nice, and happy around him.

Be Unpredictable

Here’s an easy formula I want you to remember:

​Predictable = Boring

If you want to make a man crazy about you, you need to break the routine and be unpredictable.

Yeah, yeah, this sounds like some obvious, cookie-cutter advice, right?

But it’s true.

If you’re always going to the same restaurants, having the same type of dates, and even having sex in same positions every single time, he’s going to get bored.

And he’s definitely not going to obsess over a girl who makes him feel bored.

No.

What you need to do is to make him feel that rush of excitement and passion he felt when everything you guys did was new.

Here are some practical ways to do that:

1. Have sex in unexpected places.

This one is great not only because you’ll both enjoy it, but also because of the rush you and he will get from the possibility of getting caught.

2. Surprise him with ________.

______ can be anything: from cooking him a meal, to throwing him a party, to taking him rafting or rock climbing. It should be something that he likes and is meaningful to him.

3. Change the clothes you wear.

Men are highly visual creatures. If you’re always wearing jeans and sneakers, and suddenly try out a sexy red dress, trust me: he’ll notice.

P.S. Like I said, the truth of the matter is that men are highly sexual beings.

If you want to make him obsess over you, think about you every second of the day, and have eyes for you and only you – you need to start in the bedroom.

And the single most powerful way to become great in bed is to learn how to talk dirty to a man.

That’s why I’ve created Dirty Talking Secrets – your ultimate guide to turning a man on without even touching him.

You can learn more about it here.

About the author

Mike Morgan

Relationship and sex coach. Author of Dirty Talking Secrets. Editor in Chief at Romancoholic.com.