One of the most important ingredients of a healthy relationship is communication.
By that I don’t only mean being brutally honest with your boyfriend about things concerning both of you; I also mean talking dirty to him when you’re not together.
Yes, you’ve read that right! You don’t just communicate your needs in bed to him; you also need to talk dirty in bed or when you’re apart so you can keep him on his toes and spice things up in your relationship each and every day.
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5 Hot Reasons To Have Skype Sex With Your Boyfriend
In any relationship, if the sex isn’t good, you either work on it with your partner or you part ways.
Parting ways isn’t something you’d want if you truly loved your boyfriend, right? If so, you’ve got to work with him to keep your sex life active.
How can you do that? It’s as easy as talking dirty with him through Skype!
If you’re not convinced about how effective dirty talking is in keeping the fire in a relationship burning, here are five hot reasons that will surely change your mind.
1. It’s Foreplay With A Sexy Twist
Since most of us women take a longer time to get aroused than our male counterparts, foreplay becomes a crucial part of lovemaking.
Having said this, it’s important that you learn to talk dirty to your man before you take your clothes off and touch each other’s bodies.
If you’re not together, you can start dirty talking through Skype. This way, when the moment you are together finally arrives, both of you will be so hot for each other that you won’t be able to wait to start the lovemaking process!
2. It Can Get Your Juices Flowing
One of the great things about dirty talking is that it not only gets your creative juices flowing: it also gets your literal “juices” flowing.
You’ll be screaming (or whispering) “I’m coming” even if your man is miles away from you and you’re only video chatting through Skype.
How hot is that?
3. It Helps You Connect With Your Man On A Deeper Level
When you initiate dirty talking with your boyfriend, his response will help you better know and understand what his sexual fantasies are.
You’ll know who he is as a person on a deeper level. Armed with this knowledge, you can fulfill his sexual cravings (and he should do the same for you), causing you two to grow closer to one another.
4. It Strengthens Your Bond As Partners
Let’s face it. Lovemaking is one of the many ways you can connect with your boyfriend. When your souls intertwine so often, it transforms you both from the inside out and makes your bond as life partners stronger than ever.
5. It Leads To Better And More Pleasurable Sex
Dirty talking allows you to tell your man what exactly you want him to do to you and what you want to do to him. This then makes your communication with each other more honest and vulnerable leading to more awesome sex.
3 Ways You Can Use Skype To Spice Things Up In Your Relationship
Juggling work, life, and sex isn’t easy. If you find yourself and your boyfriend struggling with this recently, don’t worry. You’re not alone.
This is the main reason I’ve highlighted the importance of dirty talking in relationships. It helps you feel closer to one another even if you’re both busy with work.
Now, remember that you can talk dirty to your man not only when you’re both in bed but also when you’re miles away from each other.
To make this happen, you can start by downloading messaging apps like Skype if you don’t already have it installed on your phone, tablet, or laptop.
Once you have it, you can start using it as your main way of communicating (and dirty talking) with your man when you’re not together.
Here are two ways Skype can help you spice things up in your relationship.
1. Video Chat
With Skype, you can initiate sexting with your man while you’re on your coffee break or during your lunch at work. Not only that; you can even see him and what he’s doing while you’re chatting through Skype video chat.
Getting a good look at his face and how he reacts as you talk dirty to him will surely make your quick interaction intense, worthwhile, and special. This is why video chatting through Skype is definitely worth a try.
2. Video Call
If you’d prefer to speak than type the very words that will make your man want to race home even while he’s in the middle of a business meeting, you can use Skype’s video call feature instead.
Just be sure that you’re out of anyone’s earshot to avoid any awkwardness. It’s also a must to be somewhere private while talking dirty to your man and touching yourself at the same time.
Some of the best places to have sex with him through Skype are your office’s restroom, storage room, or any area where nobody will interrupt you.
Now, if your intention is to tease him without giving him the chance to see you, you can opt for the regular Skype call.
Use the most sultry tone of voice when telling him what you want him to do to you and what you’d love to be able to do to him.
I guarantee this will make him want you more and he’ll want to be with you as soon as humanly possible.
3. Call Recording
If you’re a fan of keeping memories (especially the steamy and sexy ones), Skype’s got you covered. You can record your man as he does his thing and he can do the same thing too through Skype.
This will be helpful during times that you feel the itch but your man isn’t available to help relieve you, personally or virtually.
But if you want a little extra help, check out our Dirty Talk Secrets guide.
This in-depth, jam-packed program teaches you how to learn about your man’s deepest fantasies and how to press his buttons when and how you desire.
There’s no point in wasting your time with the boring things you’ve been doing before.
It’s time to try something new, sexy and exciting. Trust me, you can thank me later.