How To Have Phone Sex: 13 Hot Tips - Romancoholic

How To Have Phone Sex: 13 Hot Tips

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Do you ever get turned on just by his voice? In that moment during sex when he whispers something just perfect? And does he crave your moaning so close to his ear? Now, if you know how to have phone sex, you can always be close to your man. 

Regardless of whether you tried it before, I urge you to start practicing it every once in a while.

It's a blessing for long distance relationships, and a gift for those closer to home.

In fact, I'm going to give you 13 wonderful ways in which you can enjoy a mind-blowing sex session over the phone.

Give him a teaser

Just before you end a regular conversation, or call to check up on something, throw in a naughty little signal he can pick up on. 

Then, you can follow it up with an invitation that will fully reveal your intentions.

Odds are, it'll be just enough to send his mind into a spiral of hot fantasies that'll make him want the full experience.

Trust your man

This can't be stressed enough – you need to be in that stage of the relationship where you can trust your man.

There's no room for bashfulness here, because intimate chats call for open wordplay.

That means you need to feel safe at saying some really raunchy stuff. 

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Because "penis," "vagina" and "I want you to take me on the bed" sound way too vanilla. 

What you're looking for is: "I want your rock-hard dick inside me, nailing me to the bed."

Set the mood

Whether it's your first time or you're just reading to spice up your repertoire a little, consider ditching the traditional "candle-lit room" setup. 

You need to be in your element, and if you want to talk about a fantasy scenario in the kitchen, move there. 

Lean against the counter and touch yourself the way he would, were he there.

Or sprawl yourself over the bed in your finest lingerie, with a glass of your favorite drink. 

Voice control

Before the session, work on your vocal control. Talk to yourself in a soothing, wispy tone.

Practice using only the most gentle possible voice, because as it turns out, pillow talking into your phone for over an hour can be a little straining.

So, make sure you can go the extra mile. 

Loose tongue

When you trust your partner completely, and don't shy away from naughty words, don't be afraid to spice things up a little with some dirty talk.

If you've been together for some time, then you know which phrases turn him on and make him feel as manly as possible.

Use words you'd never say in public or even to his face. Hearing you talk like a minx, he'll melt on the other side of the line.

Dress appropriately

When you're going for the full experience, then you don't refrain from making it the best masturbating session you've ever had. 

Invest some time in applying a scented body lotion, putting on your favorite thong and a bra, or just wearing a silk negligee that you know compliments your curves.

Then you'll see why most women refer to phone sex as some of the best sex they've ever had.

Go full ASMR

Along with the dirty talk, pepper in some lovely little sounds.

Sighs and moans are always a good addition, but you can also groan wantingly through a few words. 

The subtle sounds of you playfully sucking on your thumb can improve the experience greatly.

Build on memories

If you're at a loss for imagery, try to dip into the pool of experiences you two had so far.

"Remember how you.... oh, I get wet just thinking about it," is a perfect opener.

He can take over the initiative then and describe what he'd do to you to recreate that moment.

But also explore fantasies

Sometimes, reliving the same experiences can get a tad... boring.

Which is why building on a fantasy is the more common turn these conversations take.

Moreover, for those who don't dare to do things like public sex or hardcore BDSM, this is a great way to explore such options.

Get detailed

Don't forget to be detailed. 

Men are visual beings, so describing the act in as many lively details as possible is crucial.

Take note of everything, the heat, the sweat, the smells – engage all of his senses.

Just steer clear from talking about the interior decor.

Send pics

Speaking of men as visual beings, make sure to snap a photo or two

Show him the room setup, mere glimpses of what you're wearing, and hints of your face, or fingers going places.

It'll surely drive him insane more than just sending him full-on nudity.

Don't lose momentum

In case your man says something or makes a noise that's... off-putting, to say the least, don't stop the conversation.

Simply steer away to a more comfortable place.

In the heat of the moment, we can say things the other person could consider a turn-off.

But, it's important to let go and continue. Leave the discussion for later.

Use the afterglow

After you've both (hopefully) had orgasmed, spend a few minutes winding down. Don't be afraid to laugh or to be silly. Tell him what you're doing right now, or how you plan to cool off.

Whether you're running a bath, or ordering a takeout to replenish, it's a warm way to end the session. Talk as if you're really in the room together.

Otherwise, what's the point?

And in the end...

Go for what feels best. 

If you've been together for a while, then you probably want to spice things up a little.

Surprise him with naughty phone sex and make him want you in person even more.

Not to mention that it's a heck of a treat for your self-confidence as well.

About the author

Zoe Lynn

I am an aspiring writer, lo-fi music lover, and a woman trying to keep her life varied and fulfilling, with never a dull moment.