12 Steps To Reconnect With Your Husband

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Famous writer Terry Pratchett once said, “A marriage is always made up of two people who are prepared to swear that only the other one snores.” I wanted to start this article on a light note, because the topic itself is somber enough: your marriage has lost its spark and you’re afraid you’re losing your …

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Am I in Love: 7 Questions to Answer

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Lately, I’ve been struggling with figuring out whether or not I am in love with this one guy I’ve known for some time now. We click wonderfully, there’s chemistry and shy little smiles and looks when we’re in a group, but… it also makes me fearful that it’s no more than curiosity or a crush. …

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How Many Dates Before Sex? All You Need to Know

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It sounds disheartening, but… There is no set number of dates Which brings us to the ugly truth: It all comes down to your gut feeling, and how well you know yourself. Now don’t get discouraged right away, because this is even better than me giving you a cheat sheet on “how many dates before …

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How To Ride A Man Without Getting Tired

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Now, if you haven’t been on top as much (or at all), a common mistake is to think you just have to get on top and get riding. Big no-no. Why? Riding is physically engaging. You need to put in effort, which helps you appreciate how much he works when he’s on top. And while …

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Is Watching Porn Cheating? Here’s The Truth

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No. Was that enough to make you close your browser and go about your day, feeling more at ease? Probably not. And that’s a good thing. Even today, porn is frowned upon for many reasons. Some of them are grounded in truth, but some, like the one we deal with today, are not. Many people …

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9 Fun Games To Play Over Text With A Guy

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Texting has become a huge part of our lives. We use it for many different kinds of communication, but one always seems to take a backseat–texting games. They provide a great way to ease the tension of “who will text whom first”, and help you get to know the guy you’re dating much better. Today …

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Friends With Benefits Rules You Must Know

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Reyna Biddy once wrote: “It’s okay to enjoy someone’s presence without having a ‘label’ on what you two ‘are’. Let everything fall in place how it’s supposed to.” With that in mind lets check out some of the friends with benefits rules. Why are most people so quick to judge this kind of relationship? Its …

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8 Rules To Remember When Dating Older Men

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I’ll go right ahead and say it: it’s in our genes to pursue older men. Even when I was in high school, boys that were older seemed more mature, more confident, and less…lost? I think that’s ultimately what we chase. Someone who’s not lost. More… Now I don’t want to be unfair to men our …

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11 Sex Games To Play With Your Boyfriend

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Thank the internet that sex as a discussion topic has been thoroughly exposed. Making love (or just plain getting it on) is becoming viewed less and less as an act that has to be perfect and impeccable. Sex is clumsy, spontaneous, sometimes lacking, and sometimes embarrassing. And once the seriousness is gone, you realize how …

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How To Be Single After A Long Relationship

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The unexpected, much to all your friends’ and family’s surprise has happened: After a long time together, you and your boyfriend broke up. You’ve been together for quite a while, and you’ve possibly entertained the thought of spending your lives together. But even long term relationships reach a point that either makes or breaks them. …

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